“I wanted to thank you for the part you played in making Hannah’s funeral such a memorable event. Getting the right celebrant was important for us all and that we certainly did. It was, for us all, a terrible and wonderful day, and you held together your part so beautifully. We were especially grateful that you had so obviously listened to and assimilated what we told you about Hannah and our feelings about her. Your personality seemed to mirror our needs and aspirations for a day which could easily have been very traumatic. As it was you gave us the space to grieve, to laugh, to be our own, unique family - ourselves. We felt, for that brief time, that you were truly one of us – united with us as we laughed and cried and said goodbye to Hannah in our own, unique way. Thank you, thank you – anyone who gets you as their celebrant is truly blessed.”